Lingerie can be a fun and sensual way to dress up, especially when you are alone. However, learning to feel confident in your lingerie when others see you takes time and practice.
Remember that you are your hardest critic. Other people are not noticing the things you don’t like about yourself, they are seeing how beautiful you look in your silk and lace!
Body Positivity
One of the most popular tips for body confidence is to practice positive self-talk and affirmations. This is a great idea, but sometimes it’s hard to find the motivation to do it when you are feeling down in the dumps. Luckily, you can give your body the love and attention it needs by wearing lingerie that makes you feel sexy, feminine, and beautiful. The best lingerie sets will highlight your assets while concealing anything you might be insecure about, making them ideal for helping you feel confident in a revealing setting like date night or a movie night with your partner
It’s important to note that body confidence is not about hiding your insecurities or being ashamed of your appearance, but it’s more about embracing your unique beauty and showing off your personality through what you wear. When you have a positive self-image, it shows through in your actions, and you’ll find yourself feeling more attractive even if you’re not wearing a stunning piece of lingerie.
A good way to build up your confidence is by buying a range of lingerie, from sleep and loungewear to bridal and maternal lingerie. This will help you see that all bodies are gorgeous and worthy of being seen.
Date Night
Lingerie is an intimate accessory that can make you feel flirty and seductive, even if your date never sees it. Wearing lingerie can also boost confidence by reminding you that you’re beautiful and attractive, whether you’re wearing your bra on your own or under your clothes for the night.
To help you feel more confident on your next date, select lingerie that complements your body shape and accentuates your best features. You might want to consider a strapless bra that accentuates your neckline or a cage bra that showcases your figure. You can also experiment with lace, mesh, or velvet to find what feels most luxurious and flattering.
+ Soire Confidence Bandeau Bra, designed to fit like a second skin, the Soire Confidence Bandeau is a seamless and airy staple from our top-selling collection. Glossy trim details add a touch of modernity to this barely-their bra. This is simplicity mastered.
* Wireless mesh bandeau bra, meant for layering
* Lightweight, sheer, stretch mesh, with shiny soft elastic trim
* Non-padded, double-lined, mesh cups are semi-transparent, and can be worn with nipple covers for more coverage(not included)
* Pull-on style with side boning, for added support
* Silicone non-slip grips at the top of cups to prevent slipping.
Regardless of the style you choose, make sure that your lingerie is comfortable. You won’t feel sexy or fun if your lingerie gaps, digs in, or falls off when you move. If you have any doubts about how it will fit, choose a different piece until you find something that works.
Investing in your lingerie can be an excellent way to make yourself feel sexy and confident, especially for special events or dates. If you don’t have any sexy lingerie to wear on your next date, you can still feel more feminine and confident by selecting a cute bralette or a silky chemise to go with your outfit. For an extra sexy look, try pairing your lingerie with a wrap or robe that will tease and surprise your partner. This will add a little mystery to your night and increase the intimacy of your time together.
+ Magnolia Robe, our latest romantic collection. This gorgeous eyelash lace group is the perfect accessory for any blushing bride, or a special romantic moment
* Luxurious, semi-sheer lace robe
* Romantic, scalloped floral eyelash lace with satin trim
* 3/4 sleeve robe with satin tie
* Upper thigh length with scalloped edges
* V-neckline with satin trim
+ Sanika Silk Robe, the Sanika collection is part of our journey through India. Luxurious and decadent, perfect for bridal lingerie Sanika is crafted with Italian mesh, lace, and silk for special occasions
* Silk robe with embroidery
* Luxurious 100% silk with elegant and ornate embroidery
* Upper mid-thigh length
* Open front robe with removable tie
* Sheer mesh with embroidery trimmed long sleeves.
Night Out
Whether you’re going out for a night with your friends or planning on spending a romantic evening with your significant other, a little lingerie can make all the difference. Choosing the right pieces can give you a confidence boost that will have you feeling and looking your best. From comfortable bras to playful panties, there’s something for everyone!
When shopping for lingerie, it’s important to find what you love and feel confident in. It is also important to know your precise measurements so you can get the most out of your investment. Lingerie should be well-fitting, comfortable, and supportive. Look for fabrics like cotton and silk that are soft against your skin, and lace, embroidery, and other details that add a touch of luxury.
+ Paradiso Curvy Bralette, made in Italy of luxurious lace with multi-dimensional floral design
* Wireless bralette, designed for fuller busts with smaller bands
* Semi-sheer tricolor lace with scalloped edge
* Non-padded cups, lined with power mesh for added support
* Adjustable straps with detailed hardware.
+ Paradiso Thong, made in Italy of luxurious lace with multi-dimensional floral design
* Mid-rise thong
* Semi-sheer, tricolor lace with scalloped edge
* Crisscross strap detail at back
* Minimal rear coverage
* Cotton-lined gusset
If you’re nervous about wearing a certain piece for the first time, try it out at home before you wear it in front of your significant other. This will allow you to practice getting used to the fit and how you look in it, which can help ease your nerves when you finally do show up in it.
Aside from being a fun way to express yourself, lingerie can also be a form of self-love and care. If you’re someone who enjoys buying and collecting lingerie, it can be a great way to treat yourself. In the case of a special occasion, you could even set up a dimmed room with candles and a glass of wine to create an alluring, sensual atmosphere.
Whatever the reason, lingerie can be a powerful tool for body positivity and confidence. By following the above tips, you can start to feel a sense of confidence and comfort in your lingerie that will melt any partner’s heart!
Movie Night
There’s nothing better than a night in by yourself, especially when you get to dress up in sultry lingerie. Pour a glass of wine, turn on some slow music, and practice channeling your inner seductress in the mirror. With a little practice, you’ll have mastered the art of wearing pretty lingerie as your own special outfit.
If you’re unsure where to start, try adding a few basic pieces to your lingerie wardrobe and building from there. A silk camisole under a blouse, a lacy chemise under a dress, and a few pairs of matching bra and panty sets will serve as a solid base to build your collection. You can then experiment with different styles and colors once you’ve built up a comfortable amount of basics in your closet.
+ Pret A Porter Curvy Camisole, Pret A Porter Curvy is thoughtfully designed for a full bust and smaller band. This beautiful collection brings lingerie front and center, with multi-dimensional floral lace
* Wireless lace camisole
* Designed for women with a full bust and smaller band
* Beautiful lace camisole, worn alone or as a layering piece
* Fully lined with power mesh for bust support
* Wide adjustable straps for all-day comfort
* Pullover style
A great bra is essential for any lingerie collection, but not all women know how to choose one. Finding a perfect-fitting bra is important for a number of reasons, to show off your curves, and even help alleviate back pain. A good fit also helps your clothing look its best, which is always a plus!
+ Never Say Never Sweetie Bralette, our iconic, soft, Italian floral lace collection, is known for its innovative stretch and return, in an array of shimmering colors. The top-selling Never Say Never lace collection is a must-have for any lingerie wardrobe. This is the wireless bralette that started it all, the OG of bralettes, with the sweetheart neckline, the sweetie will be the style you choose over and over again
* Wireless Bralette
* Perfect for sleeping and lounging
* Soft, stretch, scalloped lace, with sweetheart front
* Pullover style
* Adjustable straps
* Unlined
Thongs are another essential piece of lingerie to have in your wardrobe. They are a great undergarment for any day-to-day wear and can be worn under tight-fitting outfits when going out or with your favorite camisole, teddy, or corset when staying in. With a minimal strip of fabric in the back, they can reveal maximum backside cleavage and add a sexy touch to any ensemble.
+ Never Say Never Skimpie G-String, our iconic, soft, Italian floral lace collection, is known for its innovative stretch and return, in an array of shimmering colors. This top-selling collection is a must-have for any lingerie wardrobe, this g-string features no rear coverage and stretchy string sides.
* Low-rise g-string
* Soft, stretch, semi-sheer, scalloped lace
* Soft elastic waistband
* No rear coverage and no VPL (visible panty lines)
* One size fits most
* Cotton-lined gusset
Lingerie isn’t just for spicing up dates and nights in with the girls, it’s a way to show yourself some love and feel confident in your own skin. So go ahead, treat yourself to a few pieces that make you feel amazing, and let them serve as a reminder of your beauty, no matter what other people think.
Just a Weekend Barbecue
Despite the strange myth that we buy and wear lingerie for our significant other, lingerie is often bought for oneself. Sometimes we need a little confidence boost and there’s nothing like a well-chosen set of intimates to do just that. From a set of camisoles and thongs to a set of high-waisted panties and suspenders, you can really feel your best in a flattering set that makes you feel sexy, even when you aren’t wearing it for a partner.
+ Never Say Never High Waisted Thong, our iconic collection known for its innovative stretch and return, in soft Italian floral lace
* High waist thong
* Soft, stretch, scalloped lace
* Great for tummy coverage
* Minimal rear coverage
* Cotton-lined gusset
Whether you are working to boost your curves or smooth out a post-baby tummy, the right lingerie can work wonders. If you want to feel extra sexy, pair your lingerie with some heels. The heels will elongate your legs and make them look more toned, too. Lingerie also looks great with thigh-high stockings, and you can even go for some sheer ones for added sexiness.
+ Never Say Never Sexy High Waisted Thong Shapewear, the Never Say Never sexy shaper thong helps shape your figure, with light compression power mesh, disguised under lace
* High-waisted thong
* Soft, stretch scalloped lace
* Power mesh tummy control panel is hidden under lace
* Minimal rear coverage
* Cotton-lined gusset
Remember that your partner isn’t as critical of you in lingerie as you are of yourself. So push all the negative self-criticism out of your head and focus on how the lingerie accents your body.
Ultimately, it’s all about finding a set that you love and are proud to wear in public. The right lingerie can amplify your confidence and make you feel ready to take on the world. So, don’t hold back – start shopping for your perfect match today! Cosabella has a wide range of beautiful lingerie to help you find your style. If you are unsure of your size, use Cosabella’s Find My Fit, with a measuring guide and a fitting guide to help you find your perfect lingerie size.
At Cosabella: We pride ourselves as a modern pioneer in lingerie (pronounced “langerie”), not just in bra and panties sets, but in comfort wear for all human shapes and sizes. Underwear is a personal choice for most people, finding the right fit with your bralette, finding the right lingerie set for a night out, and having the right lift and support are all key when it comes to your underwear. We carry a wide variety of styles, ranging from high-waisted panties to boy shorts, lace bralettes, strapless bras, wireless bras, push-up bras, and t-shirt bras with a wide range of cup sizes and shapes. Feel free to sign-up for our Loyalty Program, where you can engage with our seasonal sales and our social media announcements. For assistance in finding what you are looking for in our selections, feel free to check out our “Best Bra for your Booby Shape” and “Best Panties for your Booty Shape” blogs. We stand out from other lingerie brands by listening to our customers – so come shop lingerie with us, and share your experiences with us.
